PRETTY HIGH STANDARD, for ALL of us, (below) good words!
More specifically, a focus for:
"...honorable, lives a life above reproach (criticism) and faithful to his wife. He exercises self-control, lives wisely (?), respected for integrity and solid reputation - people speak highly of him. He enjoys others and invites them into his world (home) and teaches as well... He is not a heavy drinker, does not idolize money and is not violent. He is gentle, not quarrelsome; manages his family well and children respect/obey; wives are solid and not into gossip/slandering. (Timothy, 3:1-13)
New Year, good time to begin our growth huh!?! ...just reading and sharing my friend.